That would be like if you had a dog and they broke through the neighbors fence and ate their flowers, yet you never told them or replaced the board.
The purity issue isn’t so much that you want to be sexual, it is more tied in to your need and desire to feel loved.
I think sometimes couples can be so focused and paranoid on staying pure that they draw too much attention to purity, which actually makes it easier for them to stumble.
Don’t get me wrong, you must be cutthroat in your purity battle by setting boundaries and making the right choices in the heat of the fire.
Be encouraged because it is possible and you can do it!
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