Get him back even if he dating
Now, it's time to actually get back in touch with your ex.It depends; maybe you didn't see each other, or talk, for months, or even a year.I'll assume you've decided that things can work out between you and him, so now, the question is – what can you do so that he believes in your relationship too? This can be a huge motivator to any guy to get back together.As mentioned above, you need to be better than what he remembers you to be. It's important that you don't see each other for some time, and then once you do – he is just blown away by how much prettier you've become.So, find out what messed up your relationship and work on it.Were you too cranky, moody, jealous, demanding, insane, nagging-all-day, not giving him his space and freedom, disrespectful, got fat, made out with another guy, or you just sucked in bed? He needs to see that, after a month or so of breaking up, you are progressing; suddenly you became a different person. Once he sees how much different you became he'll wish you never broke up in the first place, he'll want to give the whole thing another chance too.
Don't post stupid, drunken-party pictures on Facebook of you making out with some random dude.
That definitely won't help, he'll just hate you and he'll feel hurt, almost as if you were cheating on him. he has to see that you are still emotionally available for him, you just need some space and time to heal after your break up.
Hint him that you might like to get back together, but don't attack him about it. Look, if you're serious about this guy and you really want him back in your life, then you must change.
He's out there, dating other women with more or less success. Either way, you want to hook up again because you've realized you still love him. You need to make him feel terrible for breaking up with you. That's what you need to make him feel like if you want to get him back.
Is he still thinking about you, does he still love you; does he also want to get back together? Every other guy you meet can't match his qualities and this just makes you go insane. Smack him over the head with a brick, throw him in the trunk of your car and take him home. You won't get him back by spying and stalking him (stop checking his Facebook every 2 minutes), but by making him remember all the great times you had together, and making him imagine how nicer life could be if you were still together. All this emotional bullshit, arguing and blaming each other for crap is one of the reasons you might have broken up in the first place. Now you know what you've lost, and you are about to get it back.