Forms of dating violence
Violence is a learned behavior and batterers choose to use violence. The victim may accept responsibility for causing the batterer to lose their temper,î but the truth is, the abuser must be held accountable for his behavior. Stalking during a relationship or after it has ended is high-risk behavior.It is typically defined as the willful, malicious and repeated following or harassing of another person, accompanied by a credible threat of violence.Eventually, the victim is left totally alone and without the internal and external resources to change their life.Some victims isolate themselves from existing resources and support systems because of the shame of bruises or other injuries, the perpetrator’s behavior in public, or the perpetrator’s treatment of friends or family.Isolation often begins as an expression of their love for the victim with statements like, “if you really loved me you would want to spend time with me, not your family”.As it progresses, the isolation expands, limiting or excluding their contact with anyone but the batterer.This may include but is not limited to: Isolation is a form of abuse often closely connected to controlling behaviors.It is not an isolated behavior, but the outcome of many kinds of abusive behaviors.
This may include but is not limited to: Sexual abuse is using sex in an exploitative fashion or forcing sex on another person.
And remember, in most states, these behaviors are also against the law.
Please be aware that a stalking situation may never be resolved to the victim’s satisfaction or to the satisfaction of the suspect.
Having consented to sexual activity in the past does not indicate current consent.
Sexual abuse may involve both verbal and physical behavior.