Dating bad girls good guys
Too many guys think that if they woke up one morning looking like Brad Pitt and having all his money, suddenly they’d have no problem acting like a cool guy. Why do girls like rude guys is because they don’t cling, get needy or complain overtly.
It sometimes translates into caring, but it isn’t sincere. The true currency of ‘cool’ is something else entirely.
And they’re not the best of partners for a long term relationship either.
But yet, there’s something about the allure of a bad girl that makes every guy secretly admire her and want her.
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Jerks probably do get women more easily in casual sex scenarios.
But they don’t get or stay married more easily; they aren’t loved more, or longer.
And then there are bad girls that every guy secretly desires and fantasizes about. After all, bad girls are unpredictable, frustrating and fickle.
He’s comfortable in his own skin, and it’s reflected in everything from his personal style to his body language. Why jerks get women is because they’re super attuned to their abilities and believe in them, without getting flustered.
He projects ‘easy-going’ and ‘casual’ instead of ‘tense’ or ‘posed.’ Why do girls like rude guys? You might have to work harder to get there, but at least when you do, it’ll be genuine. Seeing situations for what they really are (without bias, bitterness or paranoia) so you can take mature, decisive action.
Factually, their lives and loves are crappier—not happier.
And studies show that very few men want to play the field all their lives; men and women alike want lasting, true love.