Dating a coworker
Not only will this ensure you're only crossing said line for someone who may actually be worth it, but you'll also know a bit more about integrity, which will probably make you feel more comfortable as you two enter into a delicate situation. And if not, is one of you prepared to switch jobs or departments?
If those stakes are too high for you, avoid the office romance so you don't end up crying to your work wife in the bathroom. Grab your boss for a meeting to make he or she aware the situation they end up hearing about it at the proverbial water cooler.
But sometimes, that's way easier said than done — especially if your job requires you to spend long hours and tight cubicles with the same person.
Tempting (and steamy) as it may be, it can also turn out to be super awkward and traumatic — something we all saw unfold on the first season of 1. Like in the "think about it for a few extra days" way, not in the literal sense.
You're not being paid to date, so don't spend your time on the clock making googly eyes across the conference room table. Your coworkers shouldn't have to be a part of any relationship squabbles and take sides, and you shouldn't ask them to. Obviously you have each other's back — just as you would for any colleague you respect — but don't rely on your love interest to help you score a coveted account, new role, or praise from your boss. It's nearly impossible to bring work or stress home with you, but it's even harder to avoid when you and your S. If you're really trying to build a healthy relationship, these boundaries will help you exist as a couple in the real world (read: outside the office). Working alongside your boo and then seeing him after work can driven even the most adoring person mad.
This goes beyond just physical PDA — keep conversations at the office related to the job. You'll end up looking far worse and pettier than the object of your anger. It's much more satisfying to succeed on your own merit, and everyone else will appreciate your achievements more if you've earned them. And, if you're more interested in keeping it light, it's always more fun to talk about, well, anything besides work. Try doing your own thing: Take Italian classes, learn to code, see your girls — anything to maintain identity.
Having to worry about company policy, your peers and your supervisor can really put a damper on a romantic connection.And why would you want to be known as the person who only fishes in the company pool?Remember when cameraman Jeremy hooked up with producer Rachel, then got engaged to makeup artist Lizzie, but then broke it off to date Rachel?If you find yourself attracted to a coworker, follow these rules to stay out of trouble.Meeting a significant other at work may be great for your social life, but it can be like a train wreck for your career.